I am a young woman, I am 35 years old, the father’s orphan, my sisters married the girls and I lived with my elderly and sick mother, I did not go out to work despite getting a certificate that qualifies me to work because of my mother.The limit, I also refused to marry those who came to my sermon, and all for my mother, because I cannot leave her to live alone and she is in that case, and despite that, I am dreaming of a married house in which I live as a wife and a mother, and this is the nature of the woman and what she wants and the Sunnah of God in life.
Recently, a good young man came to my sermon, and I rejected him even though I liked it a lot, and I saw all the specifications of the righteous husband, he insists on me to marry me, and he left me ample of time to think and respond to him, and he wishes my response in the affirmative, and I am between my desire to marry, and my inability to leave My mother is alone, because I fear for her a lot, and I love her too much, and I fear that I marry and leave her to be the daughter of her disabilities, for she is the one who carried me and here on them, and she raised me and she brought me up and stayed up nights for me, so how can I leave her while she is in a state of weakness and weakness? It is the right of Ali, because I am afraid that I will be a disability for my mother..
I am confused in making the right decision, either I marry and leave my mother, or I keep refusing to marry and live for her only..Give me how do I behave?
Maryam / Sidi Bel Abbas
The obsession of spinsterhood chases me everywhere
I did not think that I would live a life beyond the thirty in hell, and an obsession chasing me, obsessed with spinsterhood and I who carries all the ideal qualities: good education, good reputation, science, my job in education, and the beauty that God Almighty gave me, praise be to God Almighty, but despite allThese qualities, because I did not knock on my door to anyone to ask for my hands in this age, so I became ashamed of myself when someone asked me whether you are married?And I say: Not yet.
I married my younger sisters from me, and my colleagues previously studying, and every day I hear so -and -so I got married except me, I have become unwanted, and what increased in my torture is that I hear what does not satisfy me from my mother who whenever I discuss with her on a topic except and reminded me of my current, and inSometimes you hold me words that hurt my feelings, just as whenever I meet close, neighbor, or friend, but I asked me the same question..
I am tired of these questions that hurt me, torture me, what do they want me to present myself to men, and tell them who wants to marry me?Even in my department, I did not convert to Islam from the tongues of my students who hear them whispering between them, whether or not?
Perhaps he who sees my current one says about me that I did not land as God Almighty, because the share is in his hand, the Exalted, the MajesticIt builds a happy married house, for marriage is the Sunnah of God in his creation, and there are no human beings on the face of the earth that rejects this year, but I only blame the youth of today who choose girls from their garments, and do not meet them because they did not look at ethics as much as they look at beauty and then regret their choices.
If I am a ghost, I am chasing me everywhere.
Souad / Medea
My husband stole my family and cut off his connection to them
My husband, who loved my family, treated him with great love, but rather considered him a son of them, and because my husband lost his work because of the skirmishes that occurred between him and his manager and he did not find another work to compensate for what he lost, because my father pity him and gave him a commercial shop that works as a seller, and my husband was very happy and praised God Almighty for this blessing, and I also thanked my father a lot because he thought of us, and if God did not make fun of us for our place, and my husband worked at the beginning with all diligence, and my father was pleased with him as his trade went to the fullest extent, but after a year things began to change, then selling and selling did not As in the past, the income of this store has become diminished, and my father did not understand what was happening as he saw customers rushing to the store, but the entry is very weak, and doubts began to be surrounded by my husband, and what my father doubted was a fact, as my husband installed a trap and fell without that He knows, and my father confirmed that my husband is the one who steals the money, and puts it in his own account.
My father could not tolerate the matter and faced my husband, who denied it strongly, and a fight occurred between them that led my father to expel my husband from work, and because my father did with my husband, my husband cut his connection to my family, and deprived me of their visit, vision, and also deprived them of my visit.
I miss my family a lot, a year ago I did not see any of them, I only talk to them over the phone, I miss them, especially my father who suffers from illness these days, I tried a lot to persuade my husband to visit them, especially since my father is sick, so he refused and remained calling my father to evil and wishesHe has death..
I live in constant torment, tired of this husband who has no mercy in his heart...What do I do?Do I visit them hidden from him?Do you visit me, I do not anger my Lord because I will go out without his permission..Answer me, may Allah reward you.
Mona/ Chlef
Responding to the owner of a problem:
Do I marry her despite the corruption of her morals?
Dear brother:
First: In the beginning, I inform you that God Almighty commanded us to be attesting in the event that we were confused about any matter that is attached to our lives, that is, I advise you to be inspected, so I am not disappointed..
Second: As long as you are related to this girl, and you love her very much, here you should think well, is this girl to change her behavior or not? And I think that if you open the door of dialogue with her quietly if she is ready to change her actions and actions, then marry her and exceed her previous behavior because you can be a reason for her guidance, and help her to mention God Almighty, so she changes from that of a better condition to a better condition, but in a stained manner, and beware that Her hurt it for herself or her family, just tell her: I am religious and I want a religious wife, and I am more committed to what you are in now, if you agree, a thousand congratulations, and if you do not agree, then do not know where to find goodness, God knows and he is the unseen of the unseen.
Dear brother:
I understand your matter and the nature of your marriage to her, and it is as you say: from a family that is not religious, but the girl is what her fault lived in a family far from religion, in most cases the result of education and upbringing is like this, but if she sees and looks inside her heart, you will find all kindness and tenderness,Only she wants someone to hold her hand and take her towards the straight path, concealment, and chastity, and I remember that there are many girls who hide in the problem of not marrying because they are either the father is a drunk man or the like, or her family has a bad reputation, so any guilt that the girl carries here is only that she isI grew up, and raised an unstable environment.
It is better that you are harnessing and goodness in what God has chosen for you, may God bless you, prove your steps, and provide you with the righteous wife.
Your sister in God: Hafiz.B - Bou Saada
Half -debt
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456) Luqman, 29, from the state of Blida Ititar, has a private housing looking for a halal girl whose life shares her life and is beautiful in white -skinned, working from a respectable family between 19 to 25 years old.
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